I have not said that that all women are really soft, feminine and loving. Neither are all men
aggressive, violent, ambitious, hard. Because deep down in you the consciousness is neither. The
anima and the animus, the male and the female exist in your body chemistry. You can be a man
physically, but deep inside you may have chosen the feminine part. A woman may be a woman
physically but she may have chosen the masculine part – both parts are available – then the body
remains feminine but the woman will become masculine.
That is what is happening to women connected with the Women’s Liberation movement: they are
dropping their feminineness, they are becoming as aggressive as man. They are trying to compete
with all kinds of foolishnesses that man has. They want to have all those foolishnesses themselves,
too – they cannot be left behind.
The idea of being equal is creating a foolish idea of being similar. To be equal does not mean to be
similar. Equality is a totally different dimension; similarity is different.
Yes, a woman can choose her masculine part too much, she can become identified with it, then her
softness will disappear. A man can choose his feminineness, then his hardness will disappear. The
body will remain sexually male or female, but the quality surrounding the body, the vibe, will have
to be that which you have chosen inside. A man can choose to be a woman inside, a woman can
choose to be a man inside.
And it is not a choice that you make once and forever, you can change it every moment. There are
moments when a woman is very soft and there are moments when she can be very hard, very cruel.
There are moments when a man is very hard, aggressive, but there are moments when he can be
very soft. Even a Ghengis Khan is very soft to his children. To his wife he is very soft.
I have heard...
The plain and strongly-built daughter of a Field-Marshal was engaged to be married to a young
officer on her father’s staff. ’Couldn’t you do something for Frank now that he has asked me to marry
him?’ she asked her father one day.
’There’s not much I can do really,’ replied the Field-Marshal, ’except get him a medal for gallantry.’
He was undersized, meek, diffident, and subdued, and he had applied for a job as a night-watchman.
’Yes,’ said the manager, dubiously, ’but the fact is we want someone who is restless and uneasy,
especially at night – someone who thinks the worst of everybody, someone who sleeps with one eye
open. The kind of person, in short, who, when roused, is the devil himself.’
’Alright,’ said the meek lad, as he walked away, ’I’ll send my wife.’
It depends on what you choose inside you. It is a choice. The body is not your choice, but the vibe
that will surround your body is a choice. And if you choose consciously, you will have great freedom
in your being, because you will know who you are and what you are doing with your body.
The body is tremendously potential – much can happen through it – but people take it for granted.
It is as if a beautiful guitar has been given to you as a present and you just keep it, not knowing the
potential of it. You can play on the guitar, you can learn to play on the guitar, and great music will be
born. And then it depends on you what kind of music it will be. You can create a music which is sad,
you can create a music which is celebrating, you can create music which is violent, you can create
a music which is soothing, loving, silent.
There are kinds of music. Classical music has a different quality: it soothes, it brings you to a
silence, rest. Modern pop music makes you restless, sexual; it drives you into a kind of frenzy. But
the instruments are the same – as are bodies.
A really wise person chooses to play what kind of music he wants to play on the body. You can make
your body like a Buddha or you can become a Mohammed Ali. It depends on you. Look at Buddha’s
body – how soft, although he is a man; how feminine, although he is a man. He has chosen grace.
It depends on you. It is your choice. You are not confined by your chemistry. You can be confined
only if you remain unconscious in your chemistry, otherwise your chemistry has infinite potential: it
can be put to a thousand and one uses. And to learn how to use one’s body, how to behave with
one’s body, how to relate with one’s body, is a great art. Millions of people just take their body for
granted; they never search for its possibilities. Their body remains a seed. It never becomes a
Golden Flower.
Osho
Chapter : To Create a Balance
The Secret of Secrets Part 1
aggressive, violent, ambitious, hard. Because deep down in you the consciousness is neither. The
anima and the animus, the male and the female exist in your body chemistry. You can be a man
physically, but deep inside you may have chosen the feminine part. A woman may be a woman
physically but she may have chosen the masculine part – both parts are available – then the body
remains feminine but the woman will become masculine.
That is what is happening to women connected with the Women’s Liberation movement: they are
dropping their feminineness, they are becoming as aggressive as man. They are trying to compete
with all kinds of foolishnesses that man has. They want to have all those foolishnesses themselves,
too – they cannot be left behind.
The idea of being equal is creating a foolish idea of being similar. To be equal does not mean to be
similar. Equality is a totally different dimension; similarity is different.
Yes, a woman can choose her masculine part too much, she can become identified with it, then her
softness will disappear. A man can choose his feminineness, then his hardness will disappear. The
body will remain sexually male or female, but the quality surrounding the body, the vibe, will have
to be that which you have chosen inside. A man can choose to be a woman inside, a woman can
choose to be a man inside.
And it is not a choice that you make once and forever, you can change it every moment. There are
moments when a woman is very soft and there are moments when she can be very hard, very cruel.
There are moments when a man is very hard, aggressive, but there are moments when he can be
very soft. Even a Ghengis Khan is very soft to his children. To his wife he is very soft.
I have heard...
The plain and strongly-built daughter of a Field-Marshal was engaged to be married to a young
officer on her father’s staff. ’Couldn’t you do something for Frank now that he has asked me to marry
him?’ she asked her father one day.
’There’s not much I can do really,’ replied the Field-Marshal, ’except get him a medal for gallantry.’
He was undersized, meek, diffident, and subdued, and he had applied for a job as a night-watchman.
’Yes,’ said the manager, dubiously, ’but the fact is we want someone who is restless and uneasy,
especially at night – someone who thinks the worst of everybody, someone who sleeps with one eye
open. The kind of person, in short, who, when roused, is the devil himself.’
’Alright,’ said the meek lad, as he walked away, ’I’ll send my wife.’
It depends on what you choose inside you. It is a choice. The body is not your choice, but the vibe
that will surround your body is a choice. And if you choose consciously, you will have great freedom
in your being, because you will know who you are and what you are doing with your body.
The body is tremendously potential – much can happen through it – but people take it for granted.
It is as if a beautiful guitar has been given to you as a present and you just keep it, not knowing the
potential of it. You can play on the guitar, you can learn to play on the guitar, and great music will be
born. And then it depends on you what kind of music it will be. You can create a music which is sad,
you can create a music which is celebrating, you can create music which is violent, you can create
a music which is soothing, loving, silent.
There are kinds of music. Classical music has a different quality: it soothes, it brings you to a
silence, rest. Modern pop music makes you restless, sexual; it drives you into a kind of frenzy. But
the instruments are the same – as are bodies.
A really wise person chooses to play what kind of music he wants to play on the body. You can make
your body like a Buddha or you can become a Mohammed Ali. It depends on you. Look at Buddha’s
body – how soft, although he is a man; how feminine, although he is a man. He has chosen grace.
It depends on you. It is your choice. You are not confined by your chemistry. You can be confined
only if you remain unconscious in your chemistry, otherwise your chemistry has infinite potential: it
can be put to a thousand and one uses. And to learn how to use one’s body, how to behave with
one’s body, how to relate with one’s body, is a great art. Millions of people just take their body for
granted; they never search for its possibilities. Their body remains a seed. It never becomes a
Golden Flower.
Osho
Chapter : To Create a Balance
The Secret of Secrets Part 1
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